Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Let live and let love

In celebration of the Singles Awareness month, I'm posting this email which a friend sent me. There's actually a lot of truth to this. (*_*)

The reason why people get so sentimental is due to the fact that memories are the only things that don't change.

When everything else does, there are things in life that you can't hold on forever. No matter how much you fight for it sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful.

When you meet someone you learned to love,you thought that it was destiny who made your paths cross But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? It only made you realize that in the end the person you thought that was destined for you was not really meant to stay. And that he's only destined to make you feel loved and leave you when you've already fallen.

It's not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.
Some people might think it's just an excuse but some might not actually believe. Some will blame you and some might even be mad at you.

What they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt especially when you can't actually state the reason why you have to leave.

You can never own something that was never yours, so let's stop gripping on things we expect to last forever.

Nothing is forever because forever is a lie. Everything is transitory.

While you have something in your hand, put in mind that it's just borrowed so that someday when it's gone, it won't take you eternity just to let go.

When your feelings get strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while, and give your heart a time to breathe.

A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reasons not on emotions. The saddest thing that can happen is when one falls in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship. Love can sometimes be magic but magic can be an illusion.

There would be times that you wish you were limited to certain emotions so that you'll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get your fragile heart broken.

But the same thing means that you'll never know how to love and be loved in return because the thought of it scares you.

You'll have to make that choice - to have a heart that is whole but numb or a heart that's broken but real.

Someday, we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight.

Maybe when the time comes, we'll be laughing at our dumb selves, realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we know weren't really meant for us.

Life is what we make it and love makes the world go round.
So let's live, love and take whatever pain and joy it brings.

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